[The] Vices of every Particular Person by skilful Management were made subservient to the Grandeur... Happiness of the whole.
All untaught Animals are only Sollicitous of pleasing themselves, and naturally follow the bent of their own Inclinations, without considering the good or harm that from their being pleased will accrue to others.
The chief Thing therefore, which
Lawgivers and other Wise Men, that have laboured for the Establishment
of Society, have endeavour'd, has been to make the People they were to
govern, believe, that it was more beneficial for every body to conquer
than indulge his Appetites, and much better to mind the Publick than
what seem'd his private Interest. As this has always been a very
difficult Task, so no Wit or Eloquence has been left untried to compass
it; and the Moralists and Philosophers of all Ages employ'd their utmost
Skill to prove the truth of so useful an Assertion. But whether Mankind
would have ever believ'd it or not, it is not likely that any body
could have perswaded them to disapprove of their natural Inclinations,
or prefer the good of others to their own, if at the same time he had
not shew'd them an Equivalent to be enjoy'd as a Reward for the
Violence, which by so doing they of necessity must commit upon
themselves.
[...]They thoroughly examin'd all the
Strength and Frailties of our Nature, and observing that none were
either so savage as not to be charm'd with Praise, or so despicable as
patiently to bear Contempt, justly concluded, that Flattery must be the
most powerful Argument that cou'd be used to Human Creatures. Making use
of this bewitching Engine, they extoll'd the Excellency of our Nature
above other Animals, and setting forth with unbounded Praises the
Wonders of our Sagacity and vastness of Understanding, bestow'd a
thousand Encomiums on the Rationality of our Souls, by the help of which
we were capable of performing the most noble Atchievements. Having by
this artful way of Flattery insinuated themselves into the Hearts of
Men, they began to instruct them in the Notions of Honour and Shame;
representing the one as the worst of all Evils, and the other as the
highest good to which Mortals could aspire: Which being done, they laid
before them how unbecoming it was the Dignity of such sublime Creatures
to be sollicitous about gratifying those Appetites, which they had in
common with Brutes, and at the same time unmindful of those higher
qualities that gave them the preeminence over all visible Beings. They
indeed confess'd, that those impulses of Nature were very pressing; that
it was troublesome to resist, and very difficult wholly to subdue them:
But this they only used as an Argument to demonstrate, how glorious the
Conquest of them was on the one hand, and how scandalous on the other
not to attempt it.
To introduce... an Emulation amongst
Men, they divided the whole Species in two Classes, vastly differing
from one another: The one consisted of abject, low minded People, that
always hunting after immediate Enjoyment, were wholly incapable of
Self-denial, and without regard to the good of others, had no higher Aim
than their private Advantage; such as being enslaved by Voluptuousness,
yielded without Resistance to every gross desire, and made no use of
their Rational Faculties but to heighten their Sensual Pleasures. These
vile grov'ling Wretches, they said, were the Dross of their kind, and
having only the Shape of Men, differ'd from Brutes in nothing but their
outward Figure. But the other Class was made up of lofty high-spirited
Creatures, that free from sordid Selfishness, esteem'd the Improvements
of the Mind to be their fairest Possessions; and setting a true value
upon themselves, took no delight but in imbellishing that Part in which
their Excellency consisted; such as despising whatever they had in
common with irrational Creatures, opposed by the help of Reason their
most violent Inclinations; and making a continual War with themselves to
promote the Peace of others, aim'd at no less than the Publick Welfare
and the Conquest of their Own Passions.
Fortior est qui se quam quifortissima
Vincit Maenia ["He who conquers himself is stronger than one who takes
the greatest fortress."]
These they call'd the true
Representatives of their sublime Species, exceeding in worth the first
Class by more degrees, than that it self was superior to the Beasts of
the Field.
Lessons and Remonstrances, ...
skillfully adapted to the good Opinion Man has of himself, as those I
have mentioned, must, if scatter'd amongst a Multitude, ...induce
several, especially the fiercest, most resolute, and best among them, to
endure a thousand Inconveniences, and undergo as many hardships, that
they may have the pleasure of counting themselves Men of the second
Class, and consequently appropriating to themselves all the Excellencies
they have heard of it.
This Foundation of Politicks being once
laid, it is impossible that Man should long remain uncivilis'd: For even
those who only strove to gratify their Appetites, being continually
cross'd by others of the same Stamp, could not but observe, that
whenever they check'd their Incilinations, or but follow'd them with
more Circumspection, they avoided a world of Troubles, and often escap'd
many of the Calamities that genearlly attended the too eager pursuit
after Pleasure.
No States or Kingdoms under Heaven have
yielded more or greater Paterns in all sorts of Moral Virtues than the
Greek and Roman Empires... . [I]f we would know what made 'em excel in
Fortitude, Courage and Magnanimity, we must cast our Eyes on the Pomp of
their Triumphs, the Magnificence of their Monuments and Arches, their
Trophies, Statues, and Inscriptions; the variety of their Military
Crowns, their Honours decreed to the Dead, Publick Encomiums on the
Living, and other imaginary Rewards they bestow'd on Men of Merit; and
we shall find that what carried so many of them to the utmost Pitch of
Self-denial, was nothing but their Policy in making use of the most
effectual Means that human Pride could be flatter'd with.
[T]he nearer we search into human
Nature, the more we shall be convinc'd, that the Moral Virtues are
Political Offspring which Flattery begot upon Pride.
These extravagant Praises would by any
one, above the Capacity of an Infant, be call'd fulsome Flatteries, and,
if you will, abominable Lies; yet Experience teaches us, that by the
help of such gross Encomiums, young Misses will be brought to make
pretty Curt'sies, and behave themselves womanly much sooner, and with
less trouble, than they would without them. 'Tis the same with Boys,
whom they'll strive to perswade, that all fine Gentlemen do as they are
bid, and that none but Beggar Boys are rude, or dirty their Cloaths;
nay, as soon as the wild Brat with his untaught Fist begins to fumble
for his Hat, the Mother, to make him pull it off, tells him before he is
two Years old, that he is a Man; and if he repeats that Action when she
desires him, he's presently a Captain, a Lord Mayor, a King, or
something higher if she can think of it, till egg'd on by the force of
Praise, the little Urchin endeavours to imitate Man as well as he can,
and strains all his Faculties to appear what his shallow Noddle imagines
he is believ'd to be.
To define then the Reward of Glory in
the amplest manner, the most that can be said of it, is, that it
consists in a superlative Felicity which a Man, who is conscious of
having perform'd a noble Action, enjoys in Self love, whilst he is
thinking on the Applause he expects of other.
By Honour, in its proper and genuine
Signification, we mean nothing else but the good Opinion of others,
which is counted more or less Substantial, the more or less Noise or
Bustle there is made about the demonstration of it; and when we say the
Sovereign is the Fountain of Honour, it signifies that he has the Power,
by Titles or Ceremonies, or both together, to stamp a Mark upon whom he
pleases, that shall be as current as his Coin, and procure the Owner
the good Opinion of every Body, whether he deserves it or not.
The Reverse of Honour is Dishonour, or
Ignominy, which consists in the bad Opinion and Contempt of others; and
as the first is counted a Reward for good Actions, so this is esteem’d a
Punishment for bad ones; and the more or less publick or heinous the
manner is in which this Contempt of others is shewn, the more or less
the Person so suffering is degraded by it. This Ignominy is likewise
called Shame, from the Effect it produces; for tho’ the Good and Evil of
Honour and Dishonour are imaginary, yet there is a Reality in Shame, as
it signifies a Passion, that has its proper Symptoms, over-rules our
Reason, and requires as much Labour and Self-denial to be subdued, as
any of the rest; and since the most important Actions of Life often are
regulated according to the Influence this Passion has upon us, a
thorough Understanding of it must help to illustrate the Notions the
World has of Honour and Ignominy. I shall therefore describe it at
large.
First, to define the Passion of Shame, I
think it may be call’d a sorrowful Reflexion on our own Unworthiness,
proceeding from an Apprehension that others either do, or might, if they
knew all, deservedly despise us. The only Objection of weight that can
be rais’d against this Definition is, that innocent Virgins are often
asham’d, and blush when they are guilty of no Crime, and can give no
manner of Reason for this Frailty: .... . To answer this, I would have
it... consider’d, that the Modesty of Women is the Result of Custom and
Education, by which all unfashionable Denudations and filthy Expressions
are render’d frightful and abominable to them, and that notwithstanding
this, the most Virtuous Young Woman alive will often, in spite of her
Teeth, have Thoughts and confus’d Ideas of Things arise in her
Imagination, which she would not reveal to some People for a Thousand
Worlds. Then, I say, that when obscene Words are spoken in the presence
of an unexperienced Virgin, she is afraid that some Body will reckon her
to understand what they mean, and consequently that she understands
this and that and several things, which she desires to be thought
ignorant of. The reflecting on this, and that Thoughts are forming to
her Disadvantage, brings upon her that Passion which we call Shame; and
whatever can fling her, tho’ never so remote from Lewdness, upon that
Set of Thoughts I hinted, and which she thinks Criminal, will have the
same Effect, especially before Men, as long as her Modesty lasts.
The Reverse of Shame is Pride, yet no
Body can be touch'd with the first, that never felt any thing of the
latter; for that we have such an extraordinary Conern in what others
think of us, can proceed from nothing but the vast Esteem we have for
our selves.
When a Man is overwhelm'd with Shame, he
observes a sinking of the Spirits, the Heart feels cold and condensed,
and the Blood flies from it to the Circumference of the Body; the Face
glows, the Neck and part of the Breast partake of the Fire: He is heavy
as Lead; the Head is hung down; and the Eyes through a Mist of
Confusion, are fix'd on the Ground: ... he is weary of his Being, and
heartily wishes he could make himself invisible [my note: see the Cloud
of Unknowing]: Bue when, gratifying his Vanity, he exults in his Pride
he discovers quite contrary Symptoms: His Spirits swell and fan the
Arterial Blood, a more than ordinary warmth strengthens and dilates the
Heart; the Extremities are cool; he feels light to himself, and imagines
he could tread on Air; his Head is held up, his Eyes rowl'd about with
Sprightliness; he rejoyces at his Being, is prone to Anger, and would be
glad that all the World could take Notice of him.
It is incredible how necessary an
Ingredient Shame is to make us sociable; it is a Frailty in our Nature,
all the World... submit to it with Regret, and would prevent it if they
could; yet the Happiness of Conversation depends upon it, and no Society
could be polish'd, if the Generality of Mankind were not subject to it.
...from his Infancy throughout his
Education, we endeavour to increase instead of lessening or destroying
this Sense of Shame; and the only Remedy prescrib'd, is a strict
Observance of certain Rules to avoid those Things that might bring this
troublesome Sense of Shame upon him. But as to rid or cure him of it,
the Politician would sooner take away his Life.
The Greediness we have after the Esteem
of others, and the Raptures we enjoy in the Thoughts of being liked, and
perhaps admired, are Equivalents that over-pay the Conquest of the
strongest Passions, and consequently keep us at a great Distance from
all such Words or Actions that can bring shame upon us. The passions we
chiefly ought to hide for the Happiness and Embellishment of the Society
are Lust, Pride, and Selfishness... .
A young Woman..., that would be thought
well-bred, ought to be circumspect before Men in all her Behaviour, and
never known to receive from, much less to bestow Favours upon them... .
A young Lady of refin’d Education keeps a strict Guard over her Looks,
as well as Actions, and in her Eyes we may read a Consciousness that she
has a Treasure about her, not out of Danger of being lost, and which
yet she is resolv’d not to part with at any Terms. Thousand Satyrs have
been made against Prudes, and as many Encomiums to extol the careless
Graces, and negligent Air of virtuous Beauty. But the wiser sort of
Mankind are well assured, that the free and open Countenance of the
Smiling Fair, is more inviting, and yields greater Hopes to the Seducer,
than the ever-watchful Look of a forbidding Eye.
This strict Reservedness is to be
comply'd with by all young Women, especially Virgins, if they value the
Esteem of the Polite and knowing World; Men may take greater Liberty,
because in them the Appetite is more violent and ungovernable. Had equal
Harshness of Discipline been imposed upon both, neither of them could
have made the first Advances, and Propagation must have stood still
among all the Fashionable People... .
For this Reason, the Man is allow’d
openly to profess the Veneration and great Esteem he has for Women, and
shew greater Satisfaction, more Mirth and Gaiety in their Company, than
he is used to do out of it. He may not only be complaisant and
serviceable to them on all Occasions, but it is reckon’d his Duty to
protect and defend them. He may praise the good Qualities they are
possess’d of, and extol their Merit with as many Exaggerations as his
Invention will let him, and are consistent with good Sense. He may talk
of Love, he may sigh and complain of the Rigours of the Fair, and what
his Tongue must not utter he has the Privilege to speak with his Eyes,
and in that Language to say what he pleases; so it be done with Decency,
and short abrupted Glances: But too closely to pursue a Woman, and
fasten upon her with one’s Eyes, is counted very unmannerly; the Reason
is plain, it makes her uneasy, and, if she be not sufficiently fortify’d
by Art and Dissimulation, often throws her into visible Disorders. As
the Eyes are the Windows of the Soul, so this staring Impudence flings a
raw, unexperienc’d Woman into panick Fears, that she may be seen
through; and thata the Man will discover, or has already betray’d, what
passes within her: it keeps her on a perpetual Rack, that commands her
to reveal her secret Wishes, and seems design’d to extort from her the
grand Truth, which Modesty bids her with all her Faculties to deny.
It is Shame and Education that contains
the Seeds of all Politeness, and he that has neither, and offers to
speak the Truth of his Heart, and what he feels within, is the most
contemptible Creature upon Earth, tho’ he committed no other Fault. If a
Man should tell a Woman, that he could like no body so well to
propagate his Species upon, as her self, and that he found a violent
Desire that Moment to go about it, and accordingly offer’d to lay hold
of her for that purpose; the Consequence would be, that he would be
call’d a Brute, the Woman would run away, and himself never be admitted
in any civil Company. There is no body that has any Sense of Shame, but
would conquer the strongest Passion rather than be so serv’d. But a Man
need not conquer his Passions, it is sufficient that he conceals them.
Virtue bids us subdue, but good Breeding only requires we should hide
our Appetites. A fashionable Gentleman may have as violent an
Inclination to a Woman as the brutish Fellow; but then he behaves
himself quite otherwise; ... by Flattery, Submission, Presents, and
Assiduity, he endeavours to procure her Liking to his Person... .
"Illa verecundis lux est præbenda puellis,
Qua timidus latebras sperat habere pudor."
['A light should be given to bashful maidens, in which coy modesty may hope to have concealment.' Ovid, Amores, v. 7-8.]
... all Passions centre in Self-Love, so it may be subdued by any Superious Passion, to sooth that same Self-Love... .
... that Branch of Modesty... by which
we would make others believe, that the esteem we have for them exceeds
the value we have for our selves, and that we have no disregard so great
to any Interest as we have to our own. This laudable quality is
commonly known by the name of Manners and good Breeding, and consists in
a Fashionable Habit, acquired by Precept and Example, of flattering the
Pride and Selfishness of others, and concealing our own with Judgement
and Dexterity.
After this manner it is that the well
Bred Man insinuates himself in the esteem of all the Companies he comes
in, and if he gets nothing else by it, the Pleasure he receives in
reflecting on the Applause which he knows is secretly given him, is to a
Proud Man more than an Equivalent for his former Self-denial, and
over-pays to Self-love with Interest, the loss it sustain'd in his
Complaisance to others.
It is happy for us to have Fear for a Keeper, as long as our Reason is not strong enough to govern our Appetites... .
There is nothing refines Mankind more
than Love and Honour. Those two Passions are equivalent to many Virtues,
and therefore the greatest Schools of Breeding and good Manners are
Courts and Armies; the first to accomplish the Women, the other to
polish the Men.
Pride is that Natural Faculty by which
every Moral that has any Understanding over values, and imagines better
things of himself than any impartial Judge, thoroughly acquainted with
all his Qualities and Circumstances could allow him. We are possess'd of
no other Quality so beneficial to Society, and so necessary to render
it wealthy and flourishing as this, yet it is that which is most
generally detested. ... Fornication, and Drunkenness is most abhorr'd
by the Temperate; but none are so much offended at their Neighbour's
Pride, as the proudest of all, and if any one can pardon it, it is the
most humble: From which I think we may justly infer, that its being
odious to all the World is a certain sign that all the World is troubled
with it. ... There are... many who will allow that among the sinful
Nations of the Times, Pride and Luxury, are the great Promoters of
Trade, but they refuse to own the necessity there is, that in a more
Virtuous Age, (such a one as should be free from Pride) Trade would in a
great measure decay.
...this Emulation and continual striving
to outdo one another... sets the Poor to Work, adds Spurs to Industry,
and incourages the skilful Artificer to search after further
Improvements.
The well bred Gentleman places his
greatest Pride in the Skill he has of covering it with Dexterity, and
some are so expert in concealing this Frailty, that when they are the
most guilty of it, the Vulgar think them the most exempt from it. Thus
the dissembling Courtier, when he appears in State, assumes an Air of
Modesty and good Humour; and while he is ready to burst with Vanity,
seems to be wholly Ignorant of his Greatness; well knowing, that those
lovely Qualities must heighten him in the Esteem of others, and be an
addition to that Grandeur, which the Coronets about his Coach and
Harnesses, with the rest of his Equipage, cannot fail to proclaim
without his Assistance.
The wealthy Parson, being.. debar'd from
the Gaiety of Laymen, makes it his business to look out for ... the
finest Cloath that Money can purchase, and distinguish himself by... his
noble and spotless Garment; ... to all these niceties in Dress he adds a
Majestick Gate, and expresses a commanding loftiness in his Carriage;
yet common Civility... won't allow us to suspect any of his Actions to
be the result of Pride; considering the Dignity of his Office, it is
only Decency in him what would be Vanity in others; ... the worthy
Gentleman... puts himself to all this trouble and expense meerly out of a
respoect which is due to the Divine Order he belongs to, and a
Religious Zeal to preserve his Holy Function from the Contempt of
Scoffers. With all my Heart; nothing of all this shall be call'd Pride,
let me only be allow'd to say, that to our Human Capacities it looks
very like it.
But if at last I should grant, that
there are Men who enjoy all the Fineries of Equipage and Furniture, as
well as Cloaths, and yet have no Pride in them, it is certain, that if
all should be such, that Emulation I spoke of before must cease, and
consequently Trade, which has so great a dependenance upon it, shuffer
in every branch.
If Envy was not rivetted in Human Nature, [the] Youth would not be so generally spurr'd on by Emulation.
Envy and Emulation have kept more Men in
Bounds, and reformed more I'll Husbands from sloth, from drinking and
other evil courses than all the Sermons that have been preach'd since
the time of the Apostles.
The Ostracism of the Greeks was a Sacrifice of valuable Men made to
Epidemick Envy, and often applied as an infallible Remedy to Cure and
prevent the Mischiefs of Pupular Spleen and Rancour.
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